<p dir="ltr">A third party asking witnesses other than our friend Tony if they saw anything, maybe. An impasse would be unpleasant.</p>
<div class="gmail_quote">On Apr 17, 2013 11:35 PM, "Mitchel McAllister" <<a href="mailto:xonimmortal@yahoo.com">xonimmortal@yahoo.com</a>> wrote:<br type="attribution"><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">
I really wish you people would learn what "mediate" means. mediation implies a middle ground. Exactly what middle ground exists between a false accusation and anassertion that the accusation is false?<br>
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Date: Wednesday, April 17, 2013 11:14:46 pm<br>
To: "Mitchel McAllister" <<a href="mailto:xonimmortal@yahoo.com">xonimmortal@yahoo.com</a>><br>
Cc: Tony Longshanks LeTigre <<a href="mailto:anthonyletigre@gmail.com">anthonyletigre@gmail.com</a>>, NoiseBridge Discuss <<a href="mailto:noisebridge-discuss@lists.noisebridge.net">noisebridge-discuss@lists.noisebridge.net</a>><br>
From: "Praveen Sinha" <<a href="mailto:dmhomee@gmail.com">dmhomee@gmail.com</a>><br>
Subject: Re: [Noisebridge-discuss] leave (and associated belligerence)<br>
<br>
Guys,<br>
<br>
Please keep this off the list. I am happy to mediate between the two of<br>
you to amicably resolve differences.<br>
<br>
<br>
On Wed, Apr 17, 2013 at 11:09 PM, Mitchel McAllister<br>
<<a href="mailto:xonimmortal@yahoo.com">xonimmortal@yahoo.com</a>>wrote:<br>
<br>
> I am finding this all rather ludicrous.<br>
><br>
> I asked Dan one question: in what way was his yelling all overthe space<br>
> and deliberately slamming things around being excellent. Dan then got<br>
> belligerent to me, while Tony sat there smirking at me. Dan was the one who<br>
> escalated it. tried to make it a joke at my expense, and then demanded we<br>
> "take it outside".<br>
><br>
> He seemed to think that the threat of physical violence would make me back<br>
> down. After we were both in the stairway, he quieted down,and once agian<br>
> tried to make it all a joke. I told him that the time to admit he was wrong<br>
> was not after blaming me for his actions or making me the butt of his<br>
> so-called joke, and I was not happy with the factthat he thought he could<br>
> make me back down with his belligerence.<br>
><br>
> Dan made a big deal out of leaving at that point,saying he would come back<br>
> to the meeting on Tuesday - which I had not even mentioned. Then he went<br>
> around the corner, got stoned, and came back.<br>
><br>
> Obviously, my "threats" according to Tony were truly hoorifying to Dan.<br>
><br>
> I am not surprised at all that Tony is jumping in with a bunch of false<br>
> accusations. I did not have a knife at any time last night. Tony knows<br>
> this, as do the other people in the space. This is another pathetic attempt<br>
> by Tony to make himself the center of attention, at the expense of anyone<br>
> else.<br>
><br>
> Frankly, neither Tony nor Dan can keep me out of the space. I do a lot<br>
> more than either one of them does; for one thing I don't intentionally<br>
> disrupt the space. I let other people work on their stuff. And I don't have<br>
> to put others down to justify my existence.<br>
><br>
> I hear about how Dan does so much - when all he's done is move an<br>
> increasingly-larger pile of junk for spot to spot.<br>
><br>
> I suppose we are al<br>
<br>
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