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*snicker*<br>
The "Scape Goat" solution didn't work 3,000 years ago and I don't
think it will work now.<br>
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Norman<br>
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<div class="moz-cite-prefix">On 7/8/2013 10:05 AM, Danny Dismal
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<div>I have a great idea for solving all the problems at NB. <br>
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We can find one person to blame for them, call them a whipping
boy. Then hold them accountable for all kinds of vague
un_excellent types of behavior and ask them to leave until the
next meeting. Call a consensus on banning them and when that
fails ask them to stay away for a month. Now wait a weeks or so
to see if the problems are gon and if they are not repeat the
process picking someone else. Eventually you'll find the
trouble maker and all will be well in NB.<br>
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<div class="gmail_quote">On Mon, Jul 8, 2013 at 9:49 AM, Norman
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<div text="#000000" bgcolor="#FFFFFF"> I Know. <br>
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When I am managing a stage I am quite assertive. That is
part of the job. <br>
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When I am "off duty" I like to relax and not do the whole
assertive thing. It is not much part of my nature.<span
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<div>On 7/8/2013 8:12 AM, Romy Ilano wrote:<br>
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<div>I've had exceptionally pleasant experiences at
noisebridge ... Thinking on it much more positive
than most tech coworking spaces .</div>
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<div>Maybe if you go you should be open minded but
establish very clear and assertive boundaries? The
times where I conflict with people is when I'm not
assertive about my boundaries and allow people to
cross them .. </div>
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<div>The drama on the list is not representative of
noisebridge in person to me either<br>
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On Jul 7, 2013, at 21:04, Jeffrey Carl Faden <<a
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<div dir="ltr">I really wouldn't depend on the
mailing list for an accurate representation of
how the place actually is. And there are
dozens of seats in the back of the space, ripe
for the picking.<br>
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<div> Jeffrey</div>
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<div class="gmail_quote">On Sun, Jul 7, 2013
at 8:58 PM, Norman <span dir="ltr"><<a
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#ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">I know that
this is a subject that I should not
bring up in polite company, HOWEVER, why
should I even bother to make a trip to
Noisebridge from San Mateo?<br>
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Almost all I hear online are problems
and the few times I have been there it
is difficult to even find a seat.<br>
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I suppose that if I show up on an "off"
time I won't even be able to get in.<br>
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I am not homeless (have a rather nice
place that has been in the family for
about 80 years). I just thought that
this would be a place for an exchange of
ideas.<span><font color="#888888"><br>
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Norman<br>
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