<div dir="ltr">It's hard to believe that.<div><br></div><div>Precisely because of these issues. People were so quick to assume that my speech patterns were a result of something. They were so quick to assume that certain things were true. Their due diligence was a binary, and didn't understand the context that that person knew me better than anyone else. This was the only person I trusted everything to, and he was a social engineer.</div>
<div><br></div><div>If you reversed it, you'd find more, like debt, some people cosign, bags under the eyes, and a whole lot of pain. Now, my address has multiple things associated with it. I'm getting spammed the hell out of, via phone and computer, and the truth still isn't out. The problem is that groups form, they come together and they exclude. </div>
<div><br></div><div>They exclude on the basis of assumption, bad forensic work, and so many assumptions. It's a juxtaposition of wanted assumptions, and reality creation, like an exorcism on a 3 year old. </div></div>
<div class="gmail_extra"><br><br><div class="gmail_quote">On 18 March 2014 14:24, Elizabeth Hubbard <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:emhubbard28@gmail.com" target="_blank">emhubbard28@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br>
<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex"><div dir="ltr">Some folks at NB find you brilliant, Charles.</div><div class="HOEnZb"><div class="h5"><div class="gmail_extra">
<br><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 2:22 PM, Charles Tang <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:cjtang1@asu.edu" target="_blank">cjtang1@asu.edu</a>></span> wrote:<br>
<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex"><div dir="ltr">Everyone had their differences. I tried sharing mine, and apparently that would make me dangerous. I have had my fair share of mental abuse for the past month, and I try really hard to hold myself together. <div>
<br></div><div>Where is the cosmopolitanism? I left Arizona for a reason. All I have found here was nothing. I am hoping that will turn around, because everyone feels like this at one time or another. It's the process of growing. </div>
<div><br></div><div>But, I came to this community to try and learn things, and people decided to scope every aspect of my life. Really not knowing what had even happened, or how it came to be. As such is the consequences of labels--but exclusionary frameworks exist because we don't understand this complexity. As a result, we don't understand each other, and some are forced into isolation for the mere reason that there is no reasonable conclusion. </div>
<div><br></div><div>And still, no one can fully understand each other. But, I trust that Tom had a reason for the group, to make it more inclusive of a categorical that generally does not find interest in such a group, as that categorical may have been pressured away from accepting these kinds of ideas. Or people who originally held such beliefs, but became disenchanted from them because of such things. </div>
<div><br></div><div>And now, people have met each other, and they pair up. I had dreams too, I wanted to be part of a community too, I wanted to feel accepted. But, you all assigned me a passcode from the first day and I ignored it. You all issued judgements on me and I ignored it. I kept coming back because I had a goal, but got caught up in a web of these separations. </div>
<div><br></div><div>And now the papers have been found, by my neighbor. The ones I never talked about. Or, the history I never thought I could trust anyone with. I was told to "get over it," and I tried my hardest despite my issues to. It still persists to this day, and I am still trying my hardest to get by.</div>
<div><br></div><div>Despite my ability to speak well, despite my ability to understand, I was still ignorant as to what was going on. I was so ignorant when people came to me. I never felt comfortable talking about any of this. </div>
<div><br></div><div>But, I guess it is all in my genetics too, right? It keeps happening to me, right? </div><div><br></div><div>But, I'm still trying. </div></div><div><div><div class="gmail_extra">
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On 18 March 2014 13:42, Elizabeth Hubbard <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:emhubbard28@gmail.com" target="_blank">emhubbard28@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">
<div dir="ltr">Here's a good website to illustrate the point that we shouldn't be walking up to people and saying, "You're this color and have this set of DNA, so here's what you should think." <a href="http://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/" target="_blank">http://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/</a></div>
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<div class="gmail_extra"><br><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 1:38 PM, Elizabeth Hubbard <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:emhubbard28@gmail.com" target="_blank">emhubbard28@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br>
<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex"><div dir="ltr">So, there's a choosing pool for feminism? Where do I sign up? Here I thought I was a feminist for the past 20+ years, now I have to go ask someone permission.</div>
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On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 1:36 PM, Alexandra Glowaski <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:alex.glowaski@gmail.com" target="_blank">alex.glowaski@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">
<div dir="ltr">Wat.<div><br></div><div>Can we get this off the list?</div><div><br></div><div>(inb4 free speech: we are not the government; communities are empowered to choose their constituents and set standards for communication.)</div>
</div><div class="gmail_extra"><div><div><br><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 1:33 PM, Elizabeth Hubbard <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:emhubbard28@gmail.com" target="_blank">emhubbard28@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br>
<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex"><div dir="ltr">Not to be a kid about it (most kids don't quite think at this level yet), but going around telling people how they should identify themselves according to race and gender is highly ignorant and bigoted.</div>
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<div class="gmail_extra"><br><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 1:25 PM, Adrian Chadd <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:adrian.chadd@gmail.com" target="_blank">adrian.chadd@gmail.com</a>></span> wrote:<br>
<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">kids, please..<br>
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On 18 March 2014 13:24, Elizabeth Hubbard <<a href="mailto:emhubbard28@gmail.com" target="_blank">emhubbard28@gmail.com</a>> wrote:<br>
> Nice to hear you laugh, but I'd never call my mother an asshole. I would<br>
> call you one three times in a row, though. Asshole, asshole, asshole.<br>
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> On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 1:22 PM, Lupita Berries <<a href="mailto:garyberries@gmail.com" target="_blank">garyberries@gmail.com</a>><br>
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>> Lol, I'm not your mom, you can stop acting like a child.<br>
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>> On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 1:21 PM, Elizabeth Hubbard <<a href="mailto:emhubbard28@gmail.com" target="_blank">emhubbard28@gmail.com</a>><br>
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>>> You're a disrespectful and delusional asshole. I can join whatever group<br>
>>> I want, because I identify as human. (Says so on my census data.) Maybe<br>
>>> you don't identify me as human, but you can go mind your own business.<br>
>>><br>
>>><br>
>>> On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 1:19 PM, Lupita Berries <<a href="mailto:garyberries@gmail.com" target="_blank">garyberries@gmail.com</a>><br>
>>> wrote:<br>
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>>>> You can do whatever you want, but you can't stop others from calling you<br>
>>>> out as a disrespectful and delusional asshole.<br>
>>>><br>
>>>><br>
>>>> On Tue, Mar 18, 2014 at 1:09 PM, Elizabeth Hubbard<br>
>>>> <<a href="mailto:emhubbard28@gmail.com" target="_blank">emhubbard28@gmail.com</a>> wrote:<br>
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>>>>> I can be a black panther if I want to be. Maybe a lone black panther<br>
>>>>> in my own home, but my labels are my own choosing and anyone who tells me<br>
>>>>> otherwise is going to get an ironic eyebrow and told to mind their own<br>
>>>>> business. Our labels are own business. Co-opting them from other people,<br>
>>>>> not our business.<br>
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