[Noisebridge-discuss] Be Excellent to one another

[Tom Longson (nym)]

Everyone please stop, take a deep breath, and go do something interesting.

If you're at work, and there's nothing interesting to do, go file those TPS
reports.

Cheers,
nym



On Wed, Oct 28, 2009 at 1:04 PM, Miah Johnson <miah at chia-pet.org> wrote:

> You seriously don't want to argue with me about my gender, or how I
> identify. So I ask you to stop.
>
> I'm dragging in discuss, so people can see that you are a insensitive twat.
>
> I'm just a troll.
>
> -Miah
>
> On Wed, Oct 28, 2009 at 12:46 PM, Rich Gibson <rich.gibson at gmail.com>wrote:
>
>> Sorry but I completely disagree.  No one knows your, or anyone elses',
>> gender.  We know your presentation.
>>
>> And you didn't 'bring up a point,' you are forcing other people to care
>> about your presentation.
>>
>> I reject your claim that anyone should be 'sensitive' to presentation.
>>
>> Sent from my iPhone
>>
>> On Oct 28, 2009, at 11:33 AM, Miah Johnson <miah at chia-pet.org> wrote:
>>
>> FWIW, its not gender presentation, its gender.
>>
>> Additionally, the subject of discussion was people being offended, upset
>> with things people are or were doing. So it was fitting that I bring up that
>> point.
>>
>> -Miah
>>
>> On Oct 28, 2009, at 11:15 AM, Rich Gibson wrote:
>>
>> Taking offense at being called 'bro' is not appropriate in my world.
>>
>> You are making the claim that people need to pay attention to your gender
>> presentation when they write on the list.
>>
>> I disagree with that view.
>>
>> Sent from my iPhone
>>
>> On Oct 28, 2009, at 11:03 AM, Miah Johnson < <miah at chia-pet.org>
>> miah at chia-pet.org> wrote:
>>
>> This whole argument started because peoples feelings were hurt. It was
>> super appropriate that I overreact.
>>
>>
>> Really, fuck all of that.  How about people need to live in the world as
>> it is and stop taking offense at every fucking thing.
>>
>>
>> Were you at the meeting last night? I'm guessing no.
>>
>> -Miah
>>
>> On Oct 28, 2009, at 10:52 AM, Rich Gibson wrote:
>>
>> I personally find you or anyone being, or not being, a transwoman to be
>> totally irrelevant.
>>
>> You are apparently upset that someone called you 'bro' because that person
>> should take into account your feelings as a transwoman.
>>
>> But that means you are requiring other people to actually care and to make
>> decisions about how to interact with you based upon your
>> presentation, or your lack of presentation.  And frankly, that is not the
>> job of other people.
>>
>> Screw the idea that we need to 'take into consideration peoples feelings
>> before wielding the power of a meme against them.'
>>
>> Really, fuck all of that.  How about people need to live in the world as
>> it is and stop taking offense at every fucking thing.
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> On Wed, Oct 28, 2009 at 10:25 AM, Miah Johnson < <miah at chia-pet.org><miah at chia-pet.org>
>> miah at chia-pet.org> wrote:
>>
>>> I don't click on links to that site or 4chan. I suppose it is a meme,
>>> great I was unaware. But you should take into consideration peoples feelings
>>> before wielding the power of a meme against them.
>>>
>>> -Miah
>>>
>>> On Oct 28, 2009, at 10:16 AM, Brian Molnar wrote:
>>>
>>> <http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Cool_story_bro><http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Cool_story_bro>
>>> http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Cool_story_bro
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> On Wed, Oct 28, 2009 at 10:14 AM, Miah Johnson < <miah at chia-pet.org><miah at chia-pet.org>
>>> miah at chia-pet.org> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Is calling a out transwoman 'bro' being excellent?
>>>>
>>>> -Miah
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> On Oct 28, 2009, at 10:11 AM, Al Billings wrote:
>>>>
>>>> > This is an example of being excellent to a fellow member?
>>>> >
>>>> >
>>>> >
>>>> > On Oct 28, 2009, at 10:04 AM, Miah Johnson < <miah at chia-pet.org><miah at chia-pet.org>
>>>> miah at chia-pet.org> wrote:
>>>> >
>>>> >> You should save this email for future reference, or write the point
>>>> >> I'll make down.
>>>> >>
>>>> >> If you don't have anything to add to the conversation, shut up.
>>>> >>
>>>> >> And calling me 'bro' is going to be perceived as a personal attack
>>>> >> and
>>>> >> piss me off.
>>>> >>
>>>> >> -Miah
>>>> >>
>>>> >> On Oct 28, 2009, at 9:57 AM, peter wrote:
>>>> >>
>>>> >>> Cool story, bro.
>>>>
>>>> >>
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