[Noisebridge-discuss] It has come to my attention that...

Lillian Fleurs lillian.fleurs at gmail.com
Sun Jun 23 08:35:16 UTC 2013

Maybe I didn't give enough details about the incident. There was no easy
way for me to get up once he was behind me. Not to mention the fact that he
had a needle in his hand that prevented me from wanting to make any sudden
movements. Let me say it again, he began to unzip my pants while I was in
that vulnerable position as if he had my consent to do so, and didn't stop
unzipping nor did he respond when I screamed in a very terrified manner,
"WHAT ARE YOU DOING?" I was in shock as to what was happening, as well as
petrified of the sharp object already in his hand, so it took me a moment
to finally be able to jerk away from him before he did anything else to me
without my consent. And if I hadn't jerked away I do believe that it
wouldn't have been the medicinal needle going into my buttocks, but instead
something else entering my anal orifice. I'm sorry, but I don't see once
where I say he ever ended up helping me. It was someone else within the
space who did that. It may be drama, but it's kind of a SERIOUS fucking
issue that should be dealt with. And the fact that nothing is being done
but "mediation", makes me seriously disgusted by a space that has so much
potential to be awesome.

On Sun, Jun 23, 2013 at 12:26 AM, Lee Sonko <lee at lee.org> wrote:

> You asked him to help you. He did.
> You asked him to stop. He did.
> All the rest is misunderstanding and [drama].
> I suppose it's time to get back to excellence and hacking.
> In your own words:
> On Mon, Jun 17, 2013 at 12:46 PM, Lillian Fleurs <lillian.fleurs at gmail.com
> > wrote:
>> You tried to unzip my pants for me, that's what initially made me
>> uncomfortable. You reached around my body, putting your hands very near my
>> genitals and began to unzip my pants for me. That's when I tensed up and
>> asked you what the fuck you were doing. You made me far too tense and
>> uncomfortable to receive a shot from you. It also wasn't until Kim came
>> into the room offering you weed that you actually left. Dante was not in
>> the room when it happened, it was only you and I. However Dante did see my
>> fear, shock and discomfort after the incident. And it was Dante who helped
>> calm me down enough to be able to receive my estrogen injection.
>> The email I sent to Tony, which was later sent to Liz is word for word
>> what happened. Below is a screenshot.
>> [image: Inline image 1]
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