[Noisebridge-discuss] asked Matthew P. to leave

Brandon Edens brandonedens at gmail.com
Mon Apr 14 00:07:44 UTC 2014


Agreed. What he did was bizarre and inexcusable and not something that
should ever be tolerated at Noisebridge. Totally not okay.

Brandon
On Apr 13, 2014 2:20 PM, "Ronald Cotoni" <setient at gmail.com> wrote:

> Honestly I am not sure about a second chance after looking up someone's
> skirt.   That is just not cool.
> On Apr 13, 2014 1:30 PM, "Adrian Chadd" <adrian.chadd at gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> On 13 April 2014 08:22, Alexandra Glowaski <alex.glowaski at gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>> > The trouble with harassment is that most harassers spend most of their
>> time
>> > not harassing people, so they usually seem pretty normal. I don't feel
>> > comfortable being at NB if I don't have either a picture of this guy,
>> or an
>> > assurance that his presence will be announced (or he'll be kicked out)
>> if he
>> > shows up again.
>> > We could make a harass-o-meter! A spectrum of pictures of the dude in
>> states
>> > from "super pooped / may violate your boundaries" to "got some sleep /
>> > probably safe". Then, post it on the wall for people to make their own
>> > judgments about whether the space is safe and welcoming.
>>
>> I'd rather a space just be known for being safe and welcoming.
>>
>> > Looking up people's skirts isn't tired-person behavior. It's
>> creepy-asshole
>> > behavior. If he looks up people's skirts without permission, he is a
>> creepy
>> > asshole. Case in point: I am extremely exhausted right now, so my normal
>> > inhibitions aren't functioning properly, so I'm posting this to the list
>> > where I might otherwise hold off. I'm not pulling guys' shirts up and
>> > waggling my tongue at them.
>>
>> I'd rather you just post to the list. Or at least on Slack somewhere.
>>
>> If/when I see Matthew again I'll take him aside and tell him what he
>> did last Tuesday Wasn't Cool. If he does it or anything like it again,
>> I'll ask him to leave and to come back for mediation.
>>
>>
>>
>> -a
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