[Noisebridge-discuss] Sex Unconference
Jeffrey Malone
ieatlint at tehinterweb.com
Mon Oct 26 22:01:02 UTC 2009
I think it is best that I return to me previously stated policy of not
entering into discussions with you, Jason.
Please respect my wishes in this regard.
Jeffrey
On Mon, Oct 26, 2009 at 2:58 PM, Jason Dusek <jason.dusek at gmail.com> wrote:
> 2009/10/26 Jeffrey Malone <ieatlint at tehinterweb.com>:
>> I'll be sure to try and direct those who are new to the space
>> and having trouble integrating your way. [...]
>>
>> I however will continue to only respect the opinions of those
>> who have shown respect (in my opinion) to the organisation
>> itself.
>
> It's certainly reasonable that you should be unwilling to
> place weight on the opinions of just anyone who shows up on
> the list and starts spouting off. I hope you don't feel I'm
> asking you to do that.
>
> It is quite another thing, though, to meet a newcomer's
> ridiculous remarks with hostility, vitriol or a half-hearted
> attempt to argue with them that turns into brow-beating and
> ostracism. The hostility and rank venting evident in so much
> recent discussion about Jason Damisch -- on the list, on the
> channel and in person -- is uncalled for. An obnoxious -- or
> simply misaligned -- newcomer is something we'll see over and
> over again; we can not allow our response to such an event to
> be so poisonous and draining.
>
> I really must reiterate the importance of *courtesy* and
> *kindness* even when we can't offer *weight* or *credence* to
> someone's remarks. As regards directing people toward the
> archives or simply discussing past deliberations and their
> outcome, I can not object to it; it is entirely compatible
> with a basic respect for one another.
>
> --
> Jason Dusek
>
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