[Noisebridge-discuss] Fwd: Re[2]: Trimmed off the board list

[Dean Mao]

Yes, it does go both ways, but that doesn't mean you could still insult
someone.  Just because you may not have felt insulted, that doesn't mean
it's okay for the other person.  Especially if the other person tells you
they felt insulted.  So if Rachel felt insulted, then it doesn't hurt to
apologize either.  What is there to lose if you apologize?  Saying "sorry"
costs you nothing.  It's at most 5 bytes extra being sent over the wire.




On Sat, Mar 29, 2014 at 4:48 PM, Johny Radio <johnyradio at gmail.com> wrote:

>  Dean, your critique does not apply here, because i did NOT disagree with
> Rachel; I agreed with her.
>
> (PS, i'm sorry that your ego cannot handle being disagreed with. I
> disagreed with you, and you disagreed with me. How does that make ME the
> bad one? Doesn't it go both ways?)
>
>
> ------ Original Message ------
> From: "Dean Mao" <dean.mao at hackerdojo.com>
>
>
> I remember in the whole lockers thread, you had to go through and disagree
> with every single point I made in one of the emails, and that came off as a
> bit insulting.  I think it's fine to disagree with someone, but when one
> goes out of their way to disagree with every single point, it comes off as
> a bit hostile.
>
>


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